Am I a good mother? Such doubts are familiar to many of us. Those who think they know the exact answer live in the grip of illusions. But different styles of motherhood and different ways to communicate with the child really exist. How will a child grow up to be an inquisitive tomboy or a dangerous under-three? This can be predicted now, assessing the attitude of the mother. Looking at yourself from the outside and maybe changing something in yourself will help the test.